Monday, February 9, 2009

The History of Valentine's Day

The History of Valentine's Day


What is history Valentine’s day is all about one man had asked me this past weekend? So, I went to my blackberry to goggle the information from History.com please read the following article which is really interesting:

Every February, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday? The history of Valentine's Day — and its patron saint — is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.


One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men — his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.
According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl — who may have been his jailor's daughter — who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.
While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial — which probably occurred around 270 A.D — others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to 'christianize' celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.

To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.

The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman 'lottery' system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February — Valentine's Day — should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.

In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.

According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)
Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.

Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap".

http://www.history.com/content/valentine/history-of-valentine-s-day

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Divorce in America


Divorce in America


Divorce seems to not occur than it did many years ago. If you look at the numbers of having many people have divorce which it shows half of the population had got in divorce in today’s society than in 1950’s.

I am single lady who has not been married just yet but I been around people who have go through divorce. I can count on my fingers of how many friends or family members are going through a divorce or have been divorced this past year. What divorce means in the Webster dictionary which it says, “the action or an instance of legally dissolving a marriage.” Divorce occurs from all backgrounds, class and age. Children are usually involved in divorce. One of close family members is going through separation right now and then proceeding into a divorce in the next few months. The child of this family member was feeling depressed one night. I could see this happy child into a depressed child. I found out from another family member what had occurred with this child and the parents the night before. We had called for a family meeting and ask this depressed child to sit in front of the room. Each one of the other family members encouraged words to lift up the child’s emotion. I could see the reactions of the child as each of the family members had said words of encouragement to the child. It seemed to me if a child is in the middle of the divorce the child will get emotional if it is separation or in a divorce no matter what age the child is.

My parents at the time had been married for almost 26 years in 2001. I was 21 years old at the time and came back from a mission trip overseas. My mom decided it was time to separate from my father. It was a painful experience to not have my mom around in my life at that moment even though I was 21 years old. Things got worst for us at family when my mother left. 9-11 occurred which brought the job market to halt in a lot of companies. My father was laid off from his successful job at EDS. Our family’s house was been torn down because mold which we had to live in apartment for 6mths. Things progressed in negative form in our family because of mother. As the oldest child in my family I had begun to turn bitter towards my mother because she had left my father. I had a lot of family members, church members, co-workers & friends had prayed for our family. Then in the summer of 02, my dad’s brothers had passed away. My mom decided to live with my father for finance reasons and also to be around my father because of his brother’s death. Things came together when my mom was at home. I had dealt with bitterness after my mother came home and I had to get some professional counseling because the separation situation. 6 years later, my mom was there for my dad while he had battled with colon cancer. My dad survived colon cancer battled with my mom on his side but I think to myself how he would handle without my mom’s help. You can never question the reason why certain things happen in life but only look to the Lord for those answers.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Awesome Lady

Awesome Lady

Time can pass you by when you are not looking. I met a wonderful lady two years ago full of life and had offered me to eat some chocolates in her home. Then I saw this lady last year on Sunday afternoon lunch and the topic of the lunch was her daughter. She was not worried about anything else but her older daughter getting married. I could see how much this lady loves her family. This lady had her husband passed away in 07 but she was going strong outside and inside. This past weekend I saw this lady laid in her hospice bed with her bald hair. It tore me apart inside to see her like this on her hospice bed. I had tears running down my face while I was praying for this lady. My boyfriend was next to me also praying for this woman of the Lord. It broke my heart to see this lovely lady battling cancer. You don’t know how much it affects you when you see a family in sadness watching their mother dying. It breaks my heart because I know what they are going through because I saw my grandmother on her death bed battling cancer many years ago. It is a feeling that you can’t explain but having lots of tissues and your tears running down your face. My father dealt with cancer and is now free of cancer but he is a changed man. I thank Kate for her prayers for my dad. I will always be thankful for prayer warriors like her. My dad went through a lot of hard moments in his life while he had cancer. We did not know if he was going to live or die soon. G-d was the only who knew if he was going to live. Every moment with dad was important to all of us kids. I remember going to the chemo and eating lunch with dad before going to work. I had so much going on with my school or work but always had time for dad during those tough moments. Today we don’t take advantage of the time we have with my parents. Every moment is important and we do a lot of things as family than we did before my dad had cancer. Today I tell you celebrate your life like it is your last. Don’t hold anger to each other and forgive and forget. You don’t know if the person you love will live their last. This is goes out to Kate Hawthorne & Family. Update: Kate Hawthrone has passed away on Jan.14th. My prayers are with all of you Hawthrone Family. Be Loved by the heavenly father.

Isleen

Monday, December 29, 2008

No Love is Greater than You

I wrote this piece on Nov.08........

No Love is Greater than You

Today, I sit here and I wonder how great you are. No words can compare of how great you are. In life we try to find greater love to another human being but we will always fail. We fail to see the truth as it is but deny at times until we fall on our face. We will disappoint of who we are inside. We are imperfect inside but only one person in the world is perfect which you, Lord. We make common mistakes of what we say or do to others but you will never leave us forsake us.

In your book which it says "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child; I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known. So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love."

Do we realize that you still love us? At times we don't but as each day we must realize of how great you are because you are Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end.

Isleen

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Christmas 2008


Christmas 2008
(A picture of left Benny, Lily, Raya and my lit sis Sarah)

On the 23rd Clifford & I went shopping to purchased presents for my family. The week before we had purchased presents for Clifford’s family. We had planned out what we were going to purchase for each family member and how much Clifford was going to spend for each of the family member. I enjoyed do this task because I love to shop and help Clifford out. Clifford is not a huge shopper and hates to be stores for any reason. We finished the task with in 3 hours with no issues. This is only once a year we do this.

Christmas eve I was feeling not the greatest before going to Clifford’s annual Christmas luncheon party. I was there to help because few of the ladies were not there to set up the party. It took me almost 10 minutes to set up the party it was easy task. At the end of the party, I helped out on cleaning up the place to make sure the place ready for the next business day. (Of course I had lots of help from all the guys at Clifford’s job).

Party at the Swan’s house was a blast. I saw Trinity & Jackson Clifford’s nice and nephew) opened up their presents. It was cool to see the kids enjoying themselves with their presents. Clifford was sleeping on the sofa at one point but it was a relaxed time we had with his family.

I have to say it was blast on eating more food and fellowship all the family and friends. I felt like I was gaining another pound for eating all the yummy food such as tamales, cake, and nachos. At the end of the night my family opened the presents. It is tradition for us to open our presents on Christmas Eve instead of Christmas day. I enjoyed watching my 2 nieces opening their presents. Lily received lots of Hanna Montana presents from all of us. Every time she received Hanna Montana gift which she would sing an expert song from Hanna Montana song which I can still hear her words, “Then you rock out the show, you get the best of both worlds.” On Christmas day, I cooked my yummy pancakes for the family and watched TV all day. We ended the night by spend it with Kelly’s family and had Asian food instead of turkey. Yummy!!!

I can’t believe Christmas is over and I can’t wait to share my New Year’s plans with all of you.

Be Blessed
Isleen

Monday, December 22, 2008

Christmas Time in the City



I love the smell of my mom cooking in the kitchen for her co-workers for their annual Christmas party at General Motors tomorrow. This is the time to cook and be merry with everyone. There were so many Christmas parties I went this year that I could even count on my fingers. This year I made a promise to myself that I would spend time with my friends & family at their Christmas parties instead of going shopping at the malls. I have to say it was worth the time that I spend with my friends & family.
The last Christmas party I went this past Friday was very interesting. One lady whom I will not reveal her name but I will call her Ms S. I met Ms. S made some small talk about where her daughters went to college and what church I had attended. Well, later on that night, Ms. S started to open up with me about her single life and then we pray for one of her daughters. Before we ended the prayer I heard one of the gals in the room saying it smelled like burned rubber outside of my friend’ house. We thought it was electric burn so we called the fire department to check out the smell. The firemen checked it but major lead on why it smelled like burned rubber. It was interesting Christmas party and I will never forget the party and I got the chance to hang out with everyone.

Well, 2 more days until Christmas and things are now slowing down for me and I’m taking it easy. I look at my mom nativity set next to the dining table. We forget there is a reason of this season to celebrate Christ’s birth. We all know the story of Joseph & Mary in the Bible. Read the following on the story:


The Story of Baby Jesus(Children's Version)
A long time ago, in the town of Nazareth, lived a young woman named Mary. Mary did her chores, was kind to others, and loved God very much. She was engaged to be married to Joseph, who was a carpenter.


One day, while Mary was at home cleaning her room, an angel suddenly appeared. Before Mary could say anything the angel told Mary that she was favored by God, and that God was with her.
Mary was surprised. She was trying not to be afraid, but she had never seen an angel before. After all, Mary was just a regular lady like you or I. Why was this angel visiting her? What did the angel want?


The angel quickly tried to reassure Mary, "Do not be afraid!" The angel said. "God has found favor with you. You will have a baby boy, and are to give him the name Jesus."
Mary was confused, she was not yet married to Joseph, so how could she have a baby? The angel thought that this might concern Mary so he said, "The Holy Spirit will perform a miracle, and because of this your baby will be called the Son of God."


To Mary's surprise the angel had more exciting news; "Even your cousin Elizabeth is going to have a son in her old age. Many thought that she couldn't have children, but she is already pregnant. Nothing is impossible with God."


Mary couldn't believe what she was hearing, she didn't know what to say. She realized that she was trembling, and knelt down. When she was finally able to speak she said, "I am the Lord's servant, and I hope everything you have said will come true."
The angel then disappeared, and Mary was left alone.


Soon after, Joseph found out that Mary was going to have a baby. Joseph was confused and upset by this. But an angel came to him in a dream and said, "Joseph do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife. The child Mary is going to have is God's son, and you are to give him the name Jesus."


When Joseph woke up he remembered what the angel had said. He knew that everything was okay, and he wasn't upset anymore.
In those days the government decided that they should count everyone that lived in that area of the world. So Joseph had to take Mary to his town, Bethlehem to register.
It took Mary and Joseph a long time to get to Bethlehem. They didn't have cars back then, so it probably took them a lot longer to get there. This was very tiring for Mary because she was soon going to have a baby.


When they reached the town, all the hotels were full and there was nowhere that they could stay. Finally, someone felt bad for them, and offered them a place to stay.
The Bible doesn't say for sure where they stayed but most people think that they stayed in a small barn where animals were kept. In any case, doesn't it seem strange that Jesus, the King of the Jews wasn't born in a fancy palace or even a hospital?


Mary and Joseph were thankful that they at least had a place to lay down. It was warm, and there was plenty of straw to lay on.


That night an exciting, wonderful thing happened. Mary and Joseph had a baby! But it wasn't just any baby, it was Baby Jesus! The creator of the whole world, the King of Kings, the one who would save the world. The little baby boy fell asleep in Mary's arms and she wrapped him in cloths and laid him in a manger on some clean straw.


Mary and Joseph soon fell asleep, they were so glad to have this special baby join their family. http://www.dltk-bible.com/cv/baby_jesus_cv.htm


This story is small version of the story we hear when we were all growing up but you ever thought what Mary was thinking when she had Jesus? What was her words first words when she was first holding Jesus (son of G-d)? What were Joseph’s first words? These are the questions that come through my mind when reading the birth of Christ. This Christmas Holiday share the story with your family again to know the meaning of Christmas. We forget it is not about Santa Claus or presents but the Birth of Jesus Christ.

Be Blessed
Isleen

Sunday, November 30, 2008

What I was thankful this Thanksgiving......













Pictures of my family & awesome Thanksgiving with my lovely family.


Hey'all,This Thanksgiving I will never forget..... First, of all I am thankful for my friends and family. Each one of you have Blessed me in my life in every area. Your presence, talent, your laughter, your joy, your cooking, your hugs, your gifts. I am thankful to have you in my life. I don't think life would be the same without you. This Thanksgiving I had my family & friends helped with my painful back. I was feeling terrible with my back. Apparently, I had slept on the couch on Thursday night and i had woke up with my back feeling in pain as if I had been in car accident. It was terrible when I went shopping on Black Friday with my back in pain. I was not in the mood to shop but I was determine to get a few things no matter what because I love a good bargain. My dad, boyfriend and my aunt Nina helped take care of me and my back for 2 days. I am so greatful for them. If you have a friend and family member you haven't hugged or forgive please do because they will always be there when you are in pain.
Be Blessed

Iamisleen

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